Before anyone passes judgement on this mom, you have to walk her in shoes! These days, these kids are out of control. I’m going thru a similar situation with my 3 adopted girls who have been in therapy for over 6yrs. My girls are(not selling drugs) but stealing from home & school, lying and not doing homework–failing major classes. I’ve punished, taken away privledges, grounded, met with teachers, principle, and therapist. If you spank your kids, then you have to deal w/drama from DYFS. Even my pastor & 1st Lady have counseled them, to no prevail. Although there hasn’t been any court, juvenile and/or probation in the picture, I can’t help but wonder what’s next? My husband & I are honest, hard working people. My girls & I are faithful members of our church. Their in praise dance, choir, girlscouts and etc. What else can us parents do?